This week on Divorced Like a Boss, we are going to be talking money mindset! Now money is a SUPER hot topic in divorce, but it is a super hot topic in any relationship, because we give money SO MUCH POWER. However, money is actually neutral. The feelings around money come from the thoughts that you have surrounding money.
In this episode I challenge you to view your relationship with money as if it is an actual relationship. Are you treating money as if it was your partner? How do you treat money? Do you constantly check up on it? Do you complain about it? Do you constantly tell it it is never enough?
If this is what you are telling money with your thoughts, it is not going to want to come hang out with you. You will prove your thoughts subconsciously. It is that powerful.
“Money is pretty incredible because it is credited for creating all types of feelings. Money can make you feel scarcity or abundance. It can make you feel power, security, greed, worry, envy, embarrassment, shame, fear or excitement or any number of emotions … [but] money cannot cause you to feel anything.”
“ … Money cannot cause you to feel anything. The only thing that causes you to feel anything is a thought.”
“Everybody is in a relationship with money, so it picture it as if it were an actual human relationship. How do you treat money like if it was a partner? How are you treating money? Do you complain about it? Do you tell it it's never enough? Do you obsessively check up on it? Like how are you treating your money?”
“It's amazing how when [entrepreneurs] truly believe that the results in their business are proof, they prove that thought is super powerful. So just like anything else, your thoughts about it are going to create your feelings and drive your actions and produce the results in your life.”
“I feel like when people's when people start to uncover their relationship with money and their beliefs about money, it starts to uncover so many more things. And it really starts to uncover, in your life, are you showing up with feelings of abundance or feelings of scarcity?”
When I went through my own divorce, I discovered that the "help" that was out there was either very heavily based on dragging up the past OR slapping a positive affirmation on top of every shitty thought.
Uh, no thank you. Hard pass.
I knew there had to be a better way:
A way for people like me - driven, high-achieving women who were ready to conquer this "divorce thing" once and for all - to stop focusing on the past and start building a genuinely fun, incredible life NOW. A way for us to heal and move on without freaking CRYING every single day.
Heck, throw in some laughs, and you've got me totally sold!
That's when I discovered a method that did ALL of that.
And the rest was magic. (like, Hermione magic, not crappy Ron magic)
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