In this very first episode of Divorced Like a Boss, divorce coach Jennifer Connor talks about the different phases of divorce and where we as women can get stuck in the healing process.
Jennifer has a different approach that helps you handle your divorce like a boss - focusing on your present and future instead of continually digging up the past. If you are to thrive in life after divorce, tune in now!
It tends to be that women like us; always appear to have our stuff together, and we can kind of fall through the cracks a little bit when it comes to getting help especially when it comes to the emotional side of things because we want to approach all of this stuff from a logical standpoint right.
Everything's torn to shreds and you're standing there thinking what just happen, and that can happen with divorce too. You finally step outside to assess the damage emotionally and you look around and you think. I don't even know where to begin rebuilding this life.
Well after I had my kind of meltdown and I was 50 pounds heavier that finally pushed me to look for four other options. That's when I found this work; the work that I do now.
I approach this work from a different route than therapy, and that I focus on now. What can you do today to live a better, happier life. What can you do today to help purposefully create your future.
Instead of just getting through your present reality, and you know getting whatever future lands in your lap at the other side. I want to focus on improving and making your present reality not only better than it you know it was in the past, but better than you possibly could have imagined before.
When I went through my own divorce, I discovered that the "help" that was out there was either very heavily based on dragging up the past OR slapping a positive affirmation on top of every shitty thought.
Uh, no thank you. Hard pass.
I knew there had to be a better way:
A way for people like me - driven, high-achieving women who were ready to conquer this "divorce thing" once and for all - to stop focusing on the past and start building a genuinely fun, incredible life NOW. A way for us to heal and move on without freaking CRYING every single day.
Heck, throw in some laughs, and you've got me totally sold!
That's when I discovered a method that did ALL of that.
And the rest was magic. (like, Hermione magic, not crappy Ron magic)
Today, everything I do is with the sole purpose of helping other women use my coaching method and tools to create a life and future they LOVE.
If you're ready to capture some of this magic for yourself, hit me up!
Women are moving on and upgrading their lives every day. It's YOUR turn now.WORK WITH ME NOW
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Whether it's a nosy neighbor or your delightful Ex-mother-in-law, people are gonna ask...
And now YOU will have the perfect answer!