Struggle is Not a Contest... and No One "Wins"

Jun 30, 2019
"Is this really it? There's got to be more to life than this."
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Have you ever looked at your life, glancing past your air-conditioned house and your paid bills and your healthy children, and thought this?
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IMMEDIATELY followed by guilt for thinking such a thing, when you are such a "blessed" individual. Of course. #blessed #duh
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{{Don't mind me sitting over here, sipping my mint julep while I fan my flabbergasted "southern lady" face}}
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"And if I have ALL THIS and I'm still unhappy - is happiness ever even possible for me? I don't deserve happiness if I can't be grateful for what I DO have." #gratitude #greedy
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{{Again, don't mind me as I fake cough loudly through the word "bullshit!"}}
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LISTEN, GIRLIE - Struggle is NOT a contest.
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People who live in mansions and hang with rock stars are still allowed to struggle.
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And they do.
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A lot.
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Moms with healthy children and "good marriages" still struggle.
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Working women with amazing careers, crushing-goals-and-forgetting-names.... they struggle, too.
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No one *wins* in the struggle game.
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Sometimes people with the "most" in life are the ones who struggle the hardest. Because, not only are they experiencing some struggles, they are also JUDGING themselves for struggling in the first place!
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Disagree with me if you want... but telling a person with a sprained ankle that "there are people without legs at all!" has never helped that person feel better. {{it's also never restored a leg to someone without one}}
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SO STOP DOING THAT SHIT!
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You, my friend, are ALLOWED to struggle.
You are ALLOWED to feel unhappy.
You are ALLOWED to seek improvement in your life - regardless of whether anyone on the outside 'gets it' or not!.
No judgement. No shame. Just healing.
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If you're over there nodding like a bobble head on a dashboard, ready to throw that judgement away - I offer my deep, judgement-free rubbish bin to you! Let's chat and figure this out together.
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Your pain is real. Don't discount it because of what someone else may or may not think.
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I have a few spots open on Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday of this week if you want to talk about how we can put you in the Ejector Seat of the Struggle Bus and on your way to a life you love.
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